Episode 41: I am Queer, so are you.

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This is me at my vulnerable best. This is where I talk about how Queerness is not just a bio-psycho-social trait but is often the epicentre from where the rest of your life and everything you create within it will eventually radiate. Although it took time for me to realise how my queerness was so intricately woven into the kind of work I do, I now understand that if I do not bring the experience of my queerness to my coaching, I will be depriving the world of an exquisite lens. I will be depriving my students of the courage and faith to be different. I will be depriving them of a life of diversity, the fact that their children’s brains and their brains could be different, the fact that consistency doesn’t mean being self critical for enjoying life, that money is not only for the white world, we equally deserve and demand it, that fate/god/universe is not unfair but an equaliser. It chooses diversity because it wants the planet to evolve. And that we live in a universe where love is the only ingredient that we can hold in our bodies to stand in our truth. That we are included and that we so divinely and so magnificently belong.

What You’ll Learn from This Episode.

  1. Queerness as a experience of truth.
  2. Why I bring my queerness into my coaching.
  3. Why does inclusion matter.
  4. What does it mean to be a queer, brown, north-easterner.
  5. Why we need group containers to heal.
  6. Celebrating your queerness.
  7. All of us are pregnant with love.
  8. How to be an ejector.
  9. Diversity is the natural experience of this planet.
  10. How I am changing the face of coaching in this country.

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