Episode 44: When People Dislike/Hate Us

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I know I have been away for long. And there is a reason to it. This reason is called The Sacred Pause. A divine movement of going into the depths of your truth and resting there, as long as your body & business asks you to. But today's episode isn't about that. I am thinking of covering it in the next episode. Instead, today's episode is about Shame. It's about how we worry constantly about what other people will think about us and the stuff we do. The way we show up for our business, the way we interact with our clients, the way we communicate and make offers, the kind of businesses we come up with, the perceived alignment of certain genders with certain kind of businesses, and the drive to make and have money.

So many of us do not do what we really want to simply because we are concerned way more about our haters than about our lovers. And the more we believe that we are here to be hated, the less we believe that we are here to be loved. Listen to this episode minutely. Infact multiple times. It will give you hope. It will bring in power. And it will instill you with the weaponry to dismantle shame.

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