Episode 34: M for Million, M for Mother

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This is one of the most complex episodes that you will not just be listening to, but learning from as well. In the last one week, I have been going over my own videos of teaching Intergenerational Trauma earlier this year (in The Systemic Medicine Course), and I was hit with this realization that everything I talk about money is so intricately connected to how we experience our mother inside our bodies. Our mother is the embodiment of the love, safety, trust, connection and nourishment that we desire in our life. She is the first template of presence and harmony. It is from her that we learn receiving, learn to open ourselves, learn to look at the world through wonder and imagine countless opportunities. She, by taking in us fully, teaches us the magic and curiosity of life. Which is why it is so important to examine this relationship when it comes to our relationship with money. This is exactly what I talk about in this episode. Listen and find out.

What You’ll Learn from This Episode.

  1. The Complex Web of Intergenerational Trauma.
  2. How our mother is the first template of our nervous system.
  3. Traumas in our mother’s life impacting our money reality.
  4. How does Systemic Medicine Work?
  5. What do we mean by a break in the bond with our mother.
  6. How money becomes the metaphor for everything we receive from our mother.
  7. How traumas live in the body and can show up as money-patterns.
  8. Regulating emotions around money.
  9. Exploring traumas that happen in-utero.
  10. Knowing the core of our money problems.
  11. Benefits of being in a trauma informed container.

After listening to this episode fully, if you would like to learn more about my course in intergenerational trauma healing, The Systemic Medicine Course, please reach out to me via Instagram at @drgauravdeka

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