Episode 40: F for Financial Freedom, F for Father

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This episode is in extension to Episode 34: M for Million, M for Mother. And this is where I talk about integrating the inner experience of our father with respect to how the father wound affects our business and our stories of success and failure. As Bert Hellinger, the founder of Family Constellation, says: If mother is the one who brings us into this world, our father is the one who take us out into the world. Which is why when we have a fractured inner experience of our father, or when the bond between the two is compromised, we find it difficult to move out into the world. We find it difficult to inhabit the world of men. We find it confusing to take charge and process our volatile emotions. We find it painful to walk the path of success. And there is a reason as to why this happens. That is because we have hidden loyalties via which we continue to experience what we often reject in our father. And today’s episode is meant to bring this to light.

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